Introduction
You might be aromantic if you are indifferent to romance or enjoy close relationships without traditional romantic gestures. In this post, we’ll explain what it means to be an aromantic person and how it can impact our daily lives.
Defining aromanticism
Aromanticism[1] is a romantic orientation characterized by a lack of romantic attraction to others. Aromantic people can experience other forms of love, such as spiritual love, but they will not feel the need or desire to be in a romantic relationship. If an individual is aromantic, they are likely not interested in being in a romantic relationship or finding a romantic partner.
Furthermore, the concept of marriage might seem irrelevant to an aromantic. However, this doesn’t mean that aromantics don’t want close relationships with others; it’s just that they don’t feel the need for a romantic connection. In addition, most aromantic individuals often don’t experience romantic attraction, which means they might not be interested in kissing, cuddling, or other forms of physical intimacy.
Seven signs you may be an aromantic person
Here are seven signs that you may be an aromatic[2] person:
1. You don’t feel the need for romance
If you’re aromantic, you’re likely interested in something other than traditional romantic gestures such as flowers, candlelit dinners, or love songs. That’s not to say you don’t enjoy close relationships, but you don’t feel the need for romance to maintain them.
2. You don’t require physical affection
Aromantic people often don’t require physical affection from others. It doesn’t mean you don’t like to be touched, just that you don’t need constant physical contact as many people do.
3. You don’t get jealous
Jealousy is often a natural response to seeing a romantic partner with someone else. But if you’re aromantic, you likely don’t experience this emotion. It may be because you don’t need exclusivity in your relationships.
4. You don’t believe in love at first sight
For many people, love is a sudden, all-consuming feeling. But you probably don’t believe in love at first sight if you’re aromantic. Instead, you think relationships take time and effort to develop.
5. You’re not interested in getting married
Many dreams of getting married one day, but something other than this would interest an aromantic. To these individuals, getting married may seem pointless or unappealing.
6. You’re not interested in traditional romance
If you’re aromantic, you might not be interested in the conventional trappings of romance. It could include gestures such as exchanging flowers and chocolates, going for candlelit dinners, and other forms of traditional fantasy.
7. You have never had a crush on anyone
Aromantic people may find it difficult to relate to teenage crushes. It may also include crushes on celebrities and famous people. Furthermore, even if aromantics find someone attractive, they are not likely to enter a romantic relationship.
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What happens if you are an aromantic person?
If you’re an aromantic person,[3] you may wonder about your options regarding dating and relationships. Unfortunately, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, as each person’s experience is unique. However, you can keep a few things in mind if you are an aromantic looking for love and companionship.
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One option is to seek out platonic relationships. These are close, non-romantic relationships based on mutual respect, trust and affection. Platonic relationships can be as fulfilling as romantic ones, so don’t discount them!
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Another option is looking for relationships outside the traditional boyfriend/girlfriend model. There are many types of relationships, and one suits you better than a conventional romance. For example, you might consider a polyamorous relationship, where you have multiple partners, or a queerplatonic relationship, where you have a close bond with someone you don’t identify as a romantic partner.
The bottom line is that there’s no right way to be aromantic. Some aromantic people are content with living without a romantic partner, while others may feel lonely and long for a close, platonic relationship.
How does being aromantic affect daily life?
Being an aromantic can affect someone’s daily life in several ways. For example, an aromantic person might not feel the need to date or pursue a romantic partner. They might also be content with having relationships with close friends and family members and not feel the need for a romantic relationship to feel fulfilled.
People often associate aromanticism with asexuality, but they are not the same. Asexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by a lack of sexual attraction to others, while aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by a lack of interest in others. However, a person can be aromantic and asexual at the same time.
How does being an aromantic person affect your daily life? Do you feel like you are missing out on something? Are you content with your current situation? These are essential questions to ask yourself.
Conclusion
If you’re aromantic, it’s essential to remember that you’re not alone. There’s a growing community of aromantic people, and plenty of online resources help you cope with your anxiety about aromanticism. Just because someone is aromantic doesn’t mean they’re cold or heartless. Aromantic people can still experience love and emotion; they don’t need to be in a romantic relationship.
References
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Aromantic: What it means, myths, and allyship (no date) Medical News Today. MediLexicon International. Available at: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/aromantic (Accessed: February 14, 2023).
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Aromanticism: What does it mean? (no date) WebMD. WebMD. Available at: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-does-aromantic-mean (Accessed: February 14, 2023).
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Pietrangelo, A. (2019) Aromantic definition and Overview, Healthline. Healthline Media. Available at: https://www.healthline.com/health/aromantic (Accessed: February 14, 2023).
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